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Who are more moral? Men or women?
Posted: 02 February 2012 08:50 AM   [ Ignore ]   [ # 31 ]
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Burt: The latter of these is a book that I found quite interesting, but no woman I know of who has read it liked it at all.  The former is a fairy tale and a great read.  Also quite deep.

Okay…now I HAVE to read The Cleft”.

 

As for women being more or less moral than men?  There’s no difference as far as I’ve observed.  They just manifest their morality and immorality in different ways.

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Posted: 03 February 2012 11:21 AM   [ Ignore ]   [ # 32 ]
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saralynn - 01 February 2012 03:52 PM

Define moral and then maybe I can answer.

I will likely agree with your rendition.
Most people are generally close.

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Posted: 03 February 2012 12:18 PM   [ Ignore ]   [ # 33 ]
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Are you collecting information to write a book or something?
I thought I had read this all before somewhere, it’s like deja vu…. confused

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Posted: 03 February 2012 12:29 PM   [ Ignore ]   [ # 34 ]
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Wow.  So we’re downwind someplace from this stink?

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Posted: 03 February 2012 12:36 PM   [ Ignore ]   [ # 35 ]
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I suppose as long as we aren’t being sold Ugg Boots along with it, it’s ok.

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Posted: 03 February 2012 12:38 PM   [ Ignore ]   [ # 36 ]
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You already got yours?

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Posted: 03 February 2012 12:49 PM   [ Ignore ]   [ # 37 ]
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Mike78 - 03 February 2012 12:38 PM

You already got yours?

Their no good to me…I already have flat feet.

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Posted: 10 February 2012 08:48 PM   [ Ignore ]   [ # 38 ]
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Greatest I am - 01 February 2012 12:29 PM
Mike78 - 31 January 2012 10:49 AM

Ugh.  Seriously?  Whose apotheosis do we have to contend with here?  Yours? 

Which theory are you ultimately espousing for your silly (thought experiment) argument that women are more moral; the supposition based one about women being the principal teachers of children, or the ever more ridiculous one about who ate a magical apple first?  They are different.

Whose morality are we using to determine the results?
If a man and a woman arrive at the same decision for different reasons, can we say that one is more “moral” than the other?

You are implying that both men and women are about equal in morals. Within the two groups, you are correct that both men and women can rise to the top and both will have a most moral and they will likely be close if not identical.

If you look at the total composition of the groups, you will see that more men just do not make the grade.

Moral is as moral does.

We see this at work in the penal system where what, 95 % of those in jail are men as compared to 5 % women.

Couple that with wars and the non-equality that most religions teach, all led by men, and one cannot help but conclude that over all, women are more moral than men.

As to my teaching view, do you know many students who know any topic better than a teacher?

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Going to jail indicates a violation of legality. Morality is different from legality, in that it has to do with subjectively internal rules of behavior. I.e., being legal means avoiding going to jail, while being moral means avoiding making someone else go to jail for quite understandably embedding your face in a barroom floor.

I think your original question is unanswerable with any current investigative techniques. The kinds of immorality that men and women engage in tend to differ by gender. Men are much more likely to be quite forward about their moral transgressions, such that they tend to do those overt wrongs that also proscribed by civil laws. Women are much less likely to overtly transgress laws, but engage in behavior that abuses and exploits others non-physically or indirectly, or takes unfair opportunity of their relationships or positions.

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Posted: 12 February 2012 08:10 AM   [ Ignore ]   [ # 39 ]
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“The female of the species is more deadly than the male.”  Kipling

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=05MImdJIrLo

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Posted: 12 February 2012 08:58 AM   [ Ignore ]   [ # 40 ]
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burt - 12 February 2012 08:10 AM

“The female of the species is more deadly than the male.”  Kipling

Psychologists say people speak and act deceptively all day long. What they don’t say (or maybe I’ve just missed it) is that lie styles can differ enormously between the genders. Since deception and outright lying is often associated with what is thought to be immoral, men can tend to see women as less than morally upright, and women can tend to see men as being pigs and in need of reform in various ways. It seems obvious that deception-style differences are at least part of the story, anyway.

As to whether men or women are more moral, I would rephrase and ask whether men or women are more morally upright/proper. Better yet, just break up the question into sub-questions referring to men and women being honest, diligent, forgiving, nurturing, hard-working, patient, etc. Specifics can be looked at. We can then reserve use of the term “moral” for use in meta-ethical consideration, if any.

Rudyard was male, right?

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Posted: 12 February 2012 10:57 PM   [ Ignore ]   [ # 41 ]
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burt - 12 February 2012 08:10 AM

“The female of the species is more deadly than the male.”  Kipling

Psychologists say people speak and act deceptively all day long. What they don’t say (or maybe I’ve just missed it) is that lie styles can differ enormously between the genders. Since deception and outright lying is often associated with what is thought to be immoral, men can tend to see women as less than morally upright, and women can tend to see men as being pigs and in need of reform in various ways. It seems obvious that deception-style differences are at least part of the story, anyway.

As to whether men or women are more moral, I would rephrase and ask whether men or women are more morally upright/proper. Better yet, just break up the question into sub-questions referring to men and women being honest, diligent, forgiving, nurturing, hard-working, patient, etc. Specifics can be looked at. We can then reserve use of the term “moral” for use in meta-ethical consideration, if any.

Rudyard was male, right?

Good ideas. IMO, “moral” is usually prefixed with “im” and used for criticizing people one doesn’t like just because they are not pretending to be the same as one.

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Posted: 13 February 2012 08:11 PM   [ Ignore ]   [ # 42 ]
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Just because Ecurb voted for women I’ll vote for men.

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Posted: 14 February 2012 09:32 AM   [ Ignore ]   [ # 43 ]
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Skipshot - 13 February 2012 08:11 PM

Just because Ecurb voted for women I’ll vote for men.

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Posted: 16 February 2012 01:21 PM   [ Ignore ]   [ # 44 ]
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Mike78 - 31 January 2012 10:49 AM

Ugh.  Seriously?  Whose apotheosis do we have to contend with here?  Yours? 

Which theory are you ultimately espousing for your silly (thought experiment) argument that women are more moral; the supposition based one about women being the principal teachers of children, or the ever more ridiculous one about who ate a magical apple first?  They are different.

Whose morality are we using to determine the results?
If a man and a woman arrive at the same decision for different reasons, can we say that one is more “moral” than the other?

You are implying that both men and women are about equal in morals. Within the two groups, you are correct that both men and women can rise to the top and both will have a most moral and they will likely be close if not identical.

If you look at the total composition of the groups, you will see that more men just do not make the grade.

Moral is as moral does.

We see this at work in the penal system where what, 95 % of those in jail are men as compared to 5 % women.

Couple that with wars and the non-equality that most religions teach, all led by men, and one cannot help but conclude that over all, women are more moral than men.

As to my teaching view, do you know many students who know any topic better than a teacher?

Regards
DL

Going to jail indicates a violation of legality. Morality is different from legality, in that it has to do with subjectively internal rules of behavior. I.e., being legal means avoiding going to jail, while being moral means avoiding making someone else go to jail for quite understandably embedding your face in a barroom floor.

I think your original question is unanswerable with any current investigative techniques. The kinds of immorality that men and women engage in tend to differ by gender. Men are much more likely to be quite forward about their moral transgressions, such that they tend to do those overt wrongs that also proscribed by civil laws. Women are much less likely to overtly transgress laws, but engage in behavior that abuses and exploits others non-physically or indirectly, or takes unfair opportunity of their relationships or positions.

Women may do so. Hard to tell but since it is man who has denied woman equality in both politics and religions forever, I would say that equality was a main marker for morality and men continue to show that they do not have much.

Moral men would seek to right this injustice and we do not.

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Posted: 16 February 2012 08:03 PM   [ Ignore ]   [ # 45 ]
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Poldano - 10 February 2012 08:48 PM

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Going to jail indicates a violation of legality. Morality is different from legality, in that it has to do with subjectively internal rules of behavior. I.e., being legal means avoiding going to jail, while being moral means avoiding making someone else go to jail for quite understandably embedding your face in a barroom floor.

I think your original question is unanswerable with any current investigative techniques. The kinds of immorality that men and women engage in tend to differ by gender. Men are much more likely to be quite forward about their moral transgressions, such that they tend to do those overt wrongs that also proscribed by civil laws. Women are much less likely to overtly transgress laws, but engage in behavior that abuses and exploits others non-physically or indirectly, or takes unfair opportunity of their relationships or positions.

Women may do so. Hard to tell but since it is man who has denied woman equality in both politics and religions forever, I would say that equality was a main marker for morality and men continue to show that they do not have much.

Moral men would seek to right this injustice and we do not.

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DL

You’ve clearly got radical feminist mythology down pat. Despite such an amazing demonstration of erudition, I think I have the better hand, pokerishly speaking, and choose to raise. Baseballishly-speaking, I’m also throwing you a slider, just for chuckles.

In an ideal patriarchy, men would have no need for morality. Morality exists to allow equals to cooperate, and to allow inferiors to live long enough to potentially become equal. The ideal self-sufficient, self-reliant man has no need of other people for survival, and needs women only for procreation, which is really a requirement of the species and of the man’s own mortality, and not of the individual. An immortal man would need not concern himself at all with women.

The human species cannot sustain an ideal patriarchy, because its members are mortal, and because some of its members must endure long periods of relative helplessness during which they need the protection of others. Humans invented morality to encourage men to protect women and their own offspring. Individually, women with dependent children, children, and inferior adult males benefit individually from morality. A superior male does not. Therefore, to criticize a superior male for being immoral is asinine.

Since women are responsible for the basic training of young boys, including the moral training, and since women are competitive among each other with respect to their own childrens’ relative success, but must cooperate with each other and be subservient to superior males, they inculcate in children an assymetric morality. Males are taught to be subservient to stronger males, aggressive toward anyone weaker, and cooperative with equals. Females are taught to be overtly and visibly cooperative, but to use covert means to attempt to achieve relative advantages for themselves and their children from superior males. Therefore, women are responsible for inculcating in boys the male behavior that strengthens patriarchy. It is really a chicken-and-egg type of situation, and would fall apart if either gender dropped its participation.

Now, if you swung at this before now, you lose. I can make up scheitz like this (i.e., just-so explanations unsupported by reliable data) at will. I usually don’t, out of respect for the other members here, but in this case I’m making an exception, to show how easily it’s done, and how really insignificant the claims are. Real science, and hence real rationality, require painstaking collection and examination of data to reach conclusions, and advise refraining from ideologically-tinged conclusions at least until evidence is sufficient to make other conclusions unlikely.

If you are interested in some actual scientific background on this, I have two books to suggest to start with. One is the classic Primate Social Behavior, by Southwick (a little green book, probably out-of-print but available used). The other is more recent, Demonic Males: Apes and the Origins of Human Violence, by Wrangham and Peterson. For some lighter anecdotal fare suggesting the role of women in sustaining immoral male behavior, I suggest Malcolm Gladwell’s account of the Harlan County War in Outliers, as well as the American Experience television program episode about Jesse James.

I also want to point out one clear factual error in your post above. This is your assertion that “man has denied women equality in both politics and religion forever.” Clearly, you’re not familiar with matriarchal societies in history. The Iroquois were matriarchal, the Celts were largely matriarchal, the Minoans were evidently matriarchal, and there is some evidence that matriarchy predominated in at least some areas of Arabia prior to the onset of Islam.

As for “Moral men would seek to right this injustice and we do not”, speak for yourself.

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